Wednesday, 29 July 2015

Wonder Woman Wednesday

Season 1 Opening Credits.



Great moments from season 1.













And you can't have season 1 without Drusilla spinning into Wonder Girl



Have a wonderful Wednesday all.

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Monday, 27 July 2015

The Happy Face

A very wise person I am lucky to know remarked "I am just very good at putting on a happy face, better than most would know."

And that person is right and is very good at it.  But the question came to mind - why should anyone have to put on a happy face? 

Is it embarrassment?  Is it a fear that we will be looked at as weak?

Is it an adult form of Peer Pressure?  Are we that worried about what people will think if they know our true level of pain? 

Is it one of too much practice?  After a while it simply becomes second nature and we, in a way, detach from our real self?

I'm pretty good at putting on a happy face.  But I am also bloody good at being an A-1 drama queen that lets EVERYONE know how I am feeling (and yes I am attention seeking when I do it).  This, conversely, is also my number one fault.  Being a drama queen.  It isn't pretty, but I'd be lying if I said otherwise.  And most who know me would be peering at me in that "Really Rose?!" sort of way if I tried to convince them otherwise.

Giving it some thought I have come to the conclusion that it is one of permission.  We don't permit others to let their true pain through.  And so, many if not most of us walk around with our happy face plastered on.

Think about it.  How often have we felt uncomfortable when there has been someone we know - or worse, didn't know - suddenly break down in a torrent of tears and running nose?  I know I have.  It makes me uncomfortable because I often want to join them.  Given I am an ugly crier - snot running from the nose, contorted/grotesque face, elephant seal like wailing etc - it isn't something I really am about to do.  But why not?

Because I am not allowed.

No....not by you or you or you or even you (you all know who you are) - but WE aren't permitted to as a society.

We go to work with our happy face on.
We go out with friends.  Happy face ON.
We go home to our families / partners / loved ones / un-conventional domestic constructs.... happy face.

We don't like excessive emotion.  Unless its happy, and even then you better measure that shit out.  You're allowed to be as joyous as you want to (measure it!), but should you wish to sit down and have a good snot run?.......nope.  No thank you.  Go over to the naughty corner and think about what you did.

The wise person I know of is one of the smartest people I know.  This is someone with a serious IQ.  And yet even they are very careful to maintain the happy face.  To detriment I think.

I am not saying we all need to be wailing messes all the time.  But I think there is something to be said for NOT putting the happy face on sometimes.  We get to be honest for a few moments / minutes.  And that has to be healthy.  Even if it makes me / you / us / society feel uncomfortable.  Surely a little bit of discomfort is a bearable thing if it means someone else gets a few moments of honest, snot encrusted peace.

PS Yes I am aware that me trying to inject humour into this is a form of Happy Face in and of itself.  The irony is not lost on me.  Now, here's a tissue. 

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Sunday, 26 July 2015

Sexy Sunday ... Douglas Smith

Douglas Smith from Big Love... He has that whole stoner skater twink thing that really works for me.

Enjoy

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Friday, 24 July 2015

Furry Friday ... Jake Gyllenhaal

I love Mr Gyllenhaal. 

That is all.

Shabbat Shalom

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Thursday, 23 July 2015

I Have Nothing To Blog About

Please enjoy this man candy until I do.





Monday, 20 July 2015

W.O.C. In Star Trek

Star Trek has had many prominent characters played by and written for Women of Colour.

Here are a few of my personal favourites.  I hope you like.

Iman - Martia in Star Trek VI : The Undiscovered Country





Alfre Woodard - Lily in Star Trek : First Contact





Zoey Saldana - Lieutenant Nyota Uhura - Star Trek (Reboot)





And the one who started it all... the always elegant and eloquent Ms Nichelle Nichols ...
Lieutenant / Commander Nyota Uhura... Star Trek : The Original Series
(In the novels she becomes both a Captain and an Admiral!)






 
 
UPDATE - I didn't initially include Whoopi Goldberg because I am not too fond of the somewhat weird way she has gone these days.  But she WAS very good as Guinan in Star Trek : The Next Generation.
 


 
 

Sunday, 19 July 2015

Sandra Bland

A woman is dead.

She did not kill herself.  There is no evidence of self harm in her history.
There is evidence of racism and racist violence where she was arrested.
She was arrested and jailed in Waller County, Texas.

This woman had a family.  Friends.  A new job.  She had hopes for her life.

Her life was taken.  But not by her.  All for the colour of her skin.

Her name was Sandra Bland.

This is her picture. 




This situation is not new. 
This was committed by racists.
Their skin was white.
These people believe they speak and act for white people.
They do not.
They are criminals.

Her name was Sandra Bland and she was killed by racists.

I live with and benefit from white privilege. 
There is no privilege that permits one person to kill another.

This was a murder.

Saturday, 18 July 2015

The Strength of Man

What these two gents can do is amazing.

Enjoy

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xox



Tuesday, 14 July 2015

2 Hot Tuesday ... Gronkowski ...

The Gronk!

That is all.

Enjoy
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