........Firstly - a HUGE thank you to all the well wishes regarding my recent separation - the separation actually happened 3 months ago - but it has only hit home recently hence why it took so long to blog about it.
...........Simple thing - your messages and emails of support have totally filled my heart to bursting and you guys and ladies simply rock my world - Todah Rubah to you all..................
Now.............. recently, Bubb and I have been looking at all the dating / hook up sites out there (just personally my favourite is Scruff on my i-Phone) - thus far I am just chatting with people and looking for new social contacts - but OMG & WTF is it with the chronic overuse of STRAIGHT ACTING!!!
...........Who are you ?..................Neil Patrick Harris??? At least he CAN say he Straight Acts - he plays a tit-obsessed pig on a comedy show.............. the rest of you need to man the hell up and get over "ACTING" in any way.
What is wrong with being yourselves?
I find an effeminate girly queen comfortable in their own skin HEAPS hotter than a furry bear affecting a macho image and who then opens his mouth and CLICK - THUNK - KA'CHUNK!! - his pearls fall out.
DONT GET ME WRONG - I LERRRRRRRRRV BEARS !!! - they are the sixth food group as far as I am concerned!
The thing is - if your naturally macho, all good - naturally effeminate, all good - naturally middle of the road, all good - but trust me - if you put STRAIGHT ACTING on your profile - you better be flossing with pussy-pubes otherwise you are a big ol fag in DENIAL !!!
I'm gay - I'm not macho - I'm not queeny - I am just me - and I just be.
I can be over the top - I can be guy next door - I am what I am in the moment - Why aren't you?
Trust me - you will get more cock/ass (depending on your preference) - AND LOVE - if you just be yourself.
Stop acting - just be - it's okay - and you don't need ANYONE'S permission to be yourself.
You are worthy - and perfect in your own way - even WITH your own imperfections......... be it a bit of hip action - a little wrist flapping - or the chewing tobacco in your pocket.
At the end of the day - you might be surprised how your perceived "faults" or "turn offs" are actually more than likely going to be the things that have you stand out in the crowd.
Shalom & love to you all