Saturday, 12 September 2009

.......... Profile ..........Interview WIth A Porn Star..........................

............................. and what a profile this is.

I have had the pleasure of the occasional chat via commentary on this porn stars website / blog. He is a muscular, hairy, 30-something who is award winning and incredibly hot.

When I asked if I could profile him his response was "You can interview ME with a nice professional interview about MY life - or - you can interview a porn star and get the goss."

Guess which one *I* chose :)

So here it is - enjoy a profile of a porn star and industry.

Yes - we are keeping him anonymous - so we will call him "J" - not very original I agree but a little bit of mystery is worth this intriguing look into an industry that at some point we ALL partake of.



(2CW) Welcome to the blog John and thank you so much for your time.

J: My pleasure mate - thanks for having me down under.

(2CW) Now before we get into the profile, please explain why you gave me the option of two very different interviews.

J: Well, I've done these things before and it's all the same. No offense to bloggers out there. But I thought a no holds barred version might be good.

(2CW) Hence why you asked to be kept anonymous....

J: Yup - I don't want to get my friends into trouble but at the same time I don't want to get into trouble with my friends :)

Now lets get to the questions my man!

(2CW) Okay, firstly, how did you get into Porn and what was your first impressions?

J: Without going into too many details coz my story would give my name away, I was at a club in Los Angeles one night drinking on my own and a guy who I knew was a porn actor and I started chatting (he was behind the bar) and it went to numbers being exchanged - bodily fluids being exchanged - and then a business card being given to me with a studio's contact details.

I was looking for a change from my job at the time so I called them - auditioned the following week and I was in. It was very professional, not at all sleazy and very NON-sexy.

(2CW) How long before you did your first movie and what was it like on the set?

I shot my first scene a month later and was giving very precise instructions about what to do and what not do before turning up to the set. Like making sure I was clean inside and out, not changing my hair or trimming my body hair or pubes and arriving as natural as possible - they would do the rest.

My first scene was with someone who I thankfully have never had to work with again. He was one of the minority of adult actors who is little more than a queen with an attitude and not much more to offer. He was stoned off his nut when he arrived at 9am in the morning and spent most of the day complaining that I wasn't *touching* him right. Thankfully, my own performance impressed the studio and they asked me back.

(2CW) What is the whole sex on camera experience like?

J: That really depends on who you are working for. Most of the time it is very professional and calm and very conducive to a great performance. It is mostly very unhorny tho. One scene can take three hours to shoot depending on the budget and whether it's a pro studio or an amateur site. If you have a good partner, it can be a lot of fun and very relaxing. Also, if you have a good partner it's a hot fuck and you get to really sink yourself into that aspect. But there is a lot of "Put your foot here" "Move that arm" "Hold it there" "I need you to cum in 2 minutes" etc.

(2CW) So how long have you now been in the Industry?

J: I've been in the industry for between 5 and 10 years - sorry about being vague but its the identity thing :)

(2CW) Do you have a regular job?

J: I used to work in finance and was lucky to build up a large enough portfolio that I could basically retire on about 50k a year and the porn really is gravy money now.

(2CW) Do you work in any non-porn jobs?

J: Nope - aside from porn I do legit massage on the side - I don't do escorting though.

(2CW) Okay - the good stuff - what do you like to do and what won't you do :)?

J: With the exception of scat, blood, kids and animals - I'll do anything - even women. I'm gay, but when you have that chick on all fours - a hole is a hole. I really love sucking cock though - that is my absolute favourite thing to do. Give me a nice man with a great cock and I'll kneel between his legs and blow him for as long as he wants to. My personal record for a blow job is 4 hours :) - and it was worth the wait. I love fucking and getting fucked equally. I love filthy sex but my preferred is actually soft and sensual. In private I love to have long, soft, tactile romantic sex. Basically I really enjoy pampering ppl in private. On film, I really get into going hard and ruff. Awesome stuff.

I won't do anything that is psychologically unsafe. None of this "lets abduct this gay and mock-rape him" - That stuff turns my stomach and is the domain of sicko's and sexual predators. I don't do it and you couldn't pay me enough.

(2CW) What do you like in a man?

J: I seriously like all types. In a twink I like someone fun and energetic. Someone I can be silly with is a real turn on. In someone older I like muscles and lots of 'em. But if you asked me my ultimate fuck fantasy he would be 30 - taller than me - swimmers build - hairy - thick cock - doesn't have to be long - versatile - and adventurous. They have to be able to expand their boundaries.

I also like an ethnicity different to me. I like the sensual smooth skin of Asian men. I like the strength and musculature of black men. I also LOVE LOVE LOVE middle eastern men - that pure masculinity and hairy bods are just a great combination to me.

(2CW) So it's muscles that get you hard - what a surprise LOL

J: Actually - I was out last weekend and there was a guy at this bar I was in who was actually really chubby but he had a really sweet face and once I started talking to him he was really funny - as in almost peeing myself laugh out loud funny - I went home with him and he didn't have a big cock, was carrying quite a bit of extra weight but it was a hot hot time. The unique quality he had - that X factor - is something I find very attractive. Yeah I love a hot bod - but a great personality combined with a good smile and a laugh will get my cock hard and my ass open anytime.

(2CW) Porn is everywhere these days - do you think the non studio web sites are going to negatively impact on the big studios?

J: Let me tell you - with the exception of Hot House - who have always done amazing stuff - the other studios are shitting their velvet shorts. Sites like Cocksure Men, Mike Hancock, Military Classified, Sean Cody etc SCARE the big studios. These web sites are showing real people just getting it off and having a great time without any complicated sets or plots or anything like that - more importantly they won't make you mortgage your house to afford the videos.

(2CW) Do your family and friends know you do porn?

J: They sure do and they are very supportive. My dad doesn't like it but he appreciates that it's my life and my decision. He never says a bad word about it but I understand his opinion and stance very clearly.

(2CW) Let's talk about barebacking......

J: Here we go................... again!

(2CW) Now don't be like that :) - seriously - what is your view on it?

J: Personally - I believe that two people can do whatever the fuck they want as long as they are open and honest. Status doesn't matter - honesty does. If two people are honest and then choose to fuck raw - that is their choice. They know the consequences and the risks - I am not about to tell them what they can and can not do. That is why I live in America and not Baghdad.

(2CW) Do you fuck raw?

J: Never on film. I choose to only have safe anal on screen. I'll do piss play and cum swallowing, but I do believe in protection so I only fuck safe. But here's the thing - I do not know ONE porn star who wouldn't fuck another porn star raw.

We all get tested like mad so when the cameras stop I'm here to tell you the rubber comes off. I even got invited to a private party for porn people at last years Dore Alley and there wasn't one condom in sight. Why? Coz we were all negative and we knew it - is that unsafe sex? - that's for others to say. It was a safe afternoon for me and it was a whole of fun.

(2CW) So you don't have a problem with studios say like Treasure Island or SX Video?

The only problem I have with those studios is that they keep quite hush about who on the vids are neg and who are poz. I would hope that they don't mix ppl on screen but I guess it goes back to that whole thing of as long as both parties know then it's their choice. After 25 years of balls out HIV/AIDS awareness you're an idiot if you don't know the risks.

(2CW) So porn stars fuck each other bareback off-screen?

Like I said - most of them fuck EACH OTHER raw - but I probably can count on one hand the amount of porn actors that will hook up raw with total strangers. It's a strange kind of culture but it seems to work.

(2CW) Do you hook up online?

J: Sometimes - depends on my mood. Like everyone there are times when I just wanna fuck and not go through the whole show of a drink a wink and a chat. It's a bit of a crap shoot online though coz you get a lot of star fuckers and flakes who are using pics that are 5 years old. I have a couple of regular fuck buds that I can call if I get desperate so that 's a good thing.

(2CW) Do you fuck raw with them?

Yeah I do - but these are guys I've known for years and trust them with my life so... We all get tested and know what we're doing. NO lectures please - I'm a grown man and know the risks.

(2CW) Should we stop preaching the safe sex message then?

J: Absolutely not! I've lost people to HIV/AIDS and we are still losing people. We absolutely should keep the safe sex message going because condoms not only protect people from HIV, but we also forget that there is a range of STI's that condoms provide great protection from. Chlamydia, Gonorrhea and NSU are a few that no one should get in this day and age.

(2CW) Do you ever get the whole "You're being a hypocrite fucking raw whilst saying safe sex is important?"

J: Yeah I do and I usually tell those people to kiss my meaty hairy ass! I know what I am doing and with whom. The two people I fuck raw with are my best friends who I have known for over 10years. Thats a hell of a lot different to fucking raw with total strangers. Taking loads behind a bar is not negotiated safety - it's just stupid. Move on.

(2CW) Do you have a partner?

J: Yup - a pup of the four legged variety who loves me unconditionally and keeps me on my toes.

(2CW) LOL - But no bipedal partner?

J: No - had a relationship and it was good but we both wanted different things in life so we parted. We still talk but it's strictly a friendship now. I'm alone but not lonely. I have a lot going on in my life.

(2CW) What are some of the positive experiences you've had in Porn?

Hot House studio was the bomb - the guys behind that studio are total pros. They really take care of their actors and go out of their way to make sure that you have a good, positive, safe and secure time on their set. They are also consummate businessmen so if you're in any way unprofessional or fuck them over - prepare to be fucked over back and twice as hard. I personally think that is perfectly fine. Hot House pays really well and will give you all the work you want but they demand that you deliver the goods and that's a good thing for all concerned.

Titan was an OK experience. Titan is a good studio in terms of pay and conditions but it really is a bit of a machine and it sometimes feels a little impersonal when you're there. They don't mistreat anyone - but it can feel a little bit "assembly line".

(2CW) Negative experiences in Porn?

When I was first starting I did a Jeff Stryker film (which never ended up getting released) and I have to say the guy is somewhere between total nutcase and Mr Needy. He has an ego that is ten times the size of his cock and he has this whole list of things you can't do. You can't touch his hair. You can't ask him about his personal life. You cant kiss him or touch his face. You can't touch his arsehole unless he is comfortable with you. You cant do this and that blah blah blah. The man was just a total jerk and hasn't improved. He seems to think he is an A-List Hollywood actor and he's just an aging porn star with a bad attitude.

Michael Lucas is another one. I have never worked for him and won't. He's a total bitch and believes his product is the best out there and no one else comes close and will openly mock you while you're standing there. And the whole Brett Corrigan thing when he ran up on stage and started shouting was hilarious! Such a drama queen. If you say anything about him he brands you a racist coz he's foreign. Hilarious again considering how many foreigners are in American porn these days. Most people think he is just a bitch so he can get the press but a bitch is still a bitch and I don't have the patience for it. I would rather work with people who are nice and relaxed any day.

(2CW) Let's talk about stereotypes. People still believe that the gay porn industry is nothing but drugs, lost souls and predators.

J: I can't tell you how many people have used those exact words. From what I am told the 80's and early 90's were pretty hit and miss with drugs but since then the studios have really cleaned up their act. I don't know a single studio that will tolerate anything heavier than pot and even then it is only tolerated AFTER the day's work is finished and away from the set.

As for lost souls - I haven't met a single one in all the time I've been in the industry. Lost souls don't last long in industry where you really do have to have your shit together.

Predators don't last either - those who are looking to exploit people tend to find they have no actors on set. That don't make any money babe !


(2CW) Let me throw a few names / things at you and you tell me the goss.......................

Steve Cruz
A hottie with a big heart and a nice personality. Can get a bit preachy about safe sex but otherwise a great guy.

Ken Ryker
I wish I could've done a film with that big stud. I was next to him at a pool party once and he was just sex on a stick.

Chi Chi LaRue
Don't get on the wrong side of this bitch. Good if she likes you - Hell if she don't.

Francois Sagat
Nice guy - quiet - bit stand offish but not a bad person per se.

Erik Rhodes
Total hottie - but with issues. Plus he won't get help. You can hold your hand out as a friend all you want but he just won't take it. Which is a real shame. Great guy otherwise.

Diesel Washington
This guy is awesome. Hot top. Amazing cock. Really sweet nature. My kind of man.

Matthew Rush
Nice guy - totally obsessed with his bod and a little light on conversation if you know what I mean but not a bad guy.

Arpad Miklos
My ass is his whenever he wants it - and I hope it's soon :)

Gay for Pay
Sick of 'em. I hate standing around watching some straight guy delude himself into thinking that coz he's being paid he aint bi. Oh please - put the Playboy down and just admit you like cock for fuck's sake.

Francesco D'Macho and Damien Crosse
Kudos to 'em for starting their own site. Very high maintenance though - very LOOK AT US LOOK AT US! AREN'T WE A CUTE COUPLE!

Zak Spears
Hot fucker. Truly versatile. But he has to think you're hot to be friendly. At least that's the vibe I get.

Jake Cruise
Never met him but I love what he does.

Mark Dalton
I don't see it. Don't like the cock and he's a con. Next.

Zeb Atlas
Never met him but it's the whole gay and pay thing again. Mind you - I could meet him and he could turn about the nicest person you've ever met. I don't find his scenes hot though - too artificial for me. Too mechanical.

Hot House
Heaven in a studio - every studio should be like these guys.

Falcon
No Comment - seriously.

(2CW) I know it is really late where you are so I want to say thanks for this and I'm sure my readers will enjoy it too.

J: Thanks for having me man, and I think this was so much better than what I could have given you in a "straight interview". Best of luck with your blog.

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2 comments:

queer heaven said...

I really enjoy your interviews. This one sure gave a good overview of the porn industry.

Damien said...

Thanks QH - Glad you like :)