is love worth the incoming heartache?
(A) Yes - it totally is. Unless you take a chance and risk it - you will never know any happiness.
When I first met my hubby, I was emotionally crippled and suffering severe depression. I had a choice to take a chance for happiness, or, expect him to be like all the others. Thankfully, I took a chance. Yes there has been hard times - and I know that being with me can be difficult at times - but at the end of the day I wouldn't trade one day of the last 8 years with my hubby for anything.
If you aren't open to love - you aren't open to your own happiness.
Todah for the question.