............WTF........................ Can I Please Have Use Of That Arse For One Night Please............... ??? ..........

..................................I think I'd even pay for that............................... woof................
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..................................Size Matters...............................Again...........

....................because there is horny, sensual, and sexy in every size.......... you just have to see past yourself.

......Husband & I Just Extended Our Family.....................

....................... he does windows too.......... and his plumbing skills are exceptional.
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...........Ladies & Gentlemen ............... Apollo Anton Ohno ............

...........................RIP....... Andrew Koenig ...........

....................................Son of Walter and Judy Koenig.

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.......................Why 18 - 25 year olds are the new HIV spikers................

.........................Currently the fastest growing number of new HIV infections are occurring in the 18-25 year age group.

Many HIV and Gay Men's Health Organisations are wringing their hands and saying "How can this be?" I have a proposition - they are generation that have never known the fear of a community specific pandemic outbreak - AND - they are desensitised to fear.

Let's look at THEN AND NOW............

.......THEN.......

Have a look at this Aussie ad from the 80's about HIV in Australia......



The Grim Reaper bowling down children and their parents is TERRIFYING when you are a 9 year old. There was another one that had a straight couple about to do the nasty and it was about sharing needles and there was a bed made of syringes - and a sheet billowing over it and the lovers went to lie down on it. Every time I would sit there inwardly screaming at the television "Don't lie down there - it's a bed of NEEDLES !!!" - and found that EQUALLY as terrifying.

The terrifying part was being a young child at the beginning of a Pandemic that - worldwide - would kill MILLIONS of people.

The truly terrifying part was later being a young gay man trying to explore my sexuality in an age where a virus WOULD kill me if I caught - in the early 90's the HIV drugs were dreadful. People who survived were simply blessed with a strong constitution - or a biochemistry that was able to stave off the virus until the next generation of drugs could come along.

The print ads of the time all contained pictures of people riddled with Karposi's Sarcoma - or chronic lypo-atrophia resembling a refugee from Auschwitz - or young men hooked to respirators because their lungs had simply stopped working and their families could not bear turning the machines off.

.......NOW.......

Here is a recent Safe Sex ad from an Australian gay paper.




Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm - not really terrifying huh? Why? Coz pictures of a person suffering from Cocktail Syndrome are never used in safe sex ads anymore. We need to see.....

• a person forced to wear adult diapers from the chronic diarrhea
• someone in hospital hooked to an IV for dehydration from constant vomiting
• the person being buried in a cemetery because their liver gave out from drug toxicity and they were not allowed a transplant because of their virus.

Now, here's the real problem with getting younger people to seriously consider the consequences of barebacking. We have a generation of younger people who - gay or straight - have never known the fear like I did as a child.

Other things they have never had to do............

• They never had their ENTIRE social matrix of friends die within MONTHS of each other from a virus that the medical community did not understand.
• They have never had to wipe the arse of a friend who is no longer able to clean or bathe themselves.
• They have never had to see the footage of children in hospital wards dying as the camera panned over them because their infant bodies had nothing to draw upon.

And here is why we can't scare them into compliance......

• The Saw Movies
• Hostel
• Extreme sports - if you risk your life by climbing the side of a cliff with no safety equipment - a small piece of latex does not play into your thinking
• Age of Terror - 3000 people died through the actions of a few - they think "If they can die like that I'm going to enjoy my life right NOW".
• Graphic advertisements for drink driving and tobacco that would NEVER have been shown on television 20 years ago - actually - they wouldn't have been shown in a cinema without an 'R' rating.

So how do we get these kids to use protection? I have no clue - but I **do** know that pictures of hot men do not increase the odds of safer sex practices. It's time to go back to realism. No matter how much it hurts us who were there at the beginning.

I lost the first man I ever loved to Non-Hodgkins Lymphnoma due to his depleted immune system. I moved to be in the same city as him because I did not know how much time he had. When I saw him he had gone from a stunningly handsome man of 78kgs (171lbs) - to a shell of 40kgs (88lbs). When he died back in his home town - I was unable to go to the funeral because I could not afford the air fare. This is a pain that the young gay men of today will not know.

THAT is why they do not use condoms. That - and they genuinely believe that HIV no longer kills people because we LERV to tell people how fantastic the modern meds are.

We must convince them otherwise.

Again - I neither disapprove or approve of barebacking - I **DO** however, approve of people knowing all the facts before they choose a course of action - and we are not giving the current generation of young gay men all the facts.

We are aiding their uninformed decision making.

We should be ashamed.

.................Pits................................ My Favourite Sinus Cleanser.............

..........................I love a manly smelling pit - and I ***LERV*** where I got this pic from.

There is a REASON I make Swish Embassy - and the adorable Wesley - a daily stop in.

Shalom

Damien

...........Stolen Meme of a Stolen Meme Monday...........

..............to see where I stole this from - visit my evil twin at My 2 Cents HERE.............


Enjoy


The 6 W's Meme

Who…

Is easy to love? the lad in the basement - that bolt that holds his chain to the floor ain't going anywhere........
Do you just wanna smack? Obama - it's time for his testicles to drop - not a bad first year - now kick it up a notch fukka.
Do you trust? myself........... everyone else has something to prove.
Do you talk to when you’re alone? The "others" - some are in my head - some are outside of my head - but only I can see any of them.

What…

Dangerous things do you do while driving? Play pedestrian bingo - the wheelchairs are especially challenging........ moving target and all.
Are you allergic to? Mormons - Jehovahs Witnesses - Hookers from my pack who don't give me my cut.....
Is Satan’s last name? Iran.
Is the freakiest thing in your house? Me - when I'm out of my anti-depressants............ you think Sybil was freaky - that bitch was still in potty training compared to me in an episode.

When…

Is it time to turn over a new leaf? When the new identity papers arrive - hail comrades.
Will you be all that you can be? When I am finally name King of Oz - my minions are planning the revolution as we speak.
Is enough enough? When the testicles turn from blue to a deep red - usually after 36 hours of activity..........
Do you go to the dark side? When I am hurting - and it is a hurt you will never see.

Where…

Are your pants? Currently they are being used as a flag - it helps the hookers know where to come to drop off my cut.
Is your last will and testament? Surgically implanted in my fourth rib.
Is your junk food stash? Down the street - it is called a Convenience Store.
Is Carmen Sandiego? On the street corner - but she knows which pair of pants to look for.

Why…

Was the Lone Ranger alone? He had his horse - connect the dots.
Was The Scarlet Letter scarlet? Gonorrhea was a different colour back then.
Are musicians sexy and plumbers not? I've always thought plumbers were hotter - try a number three wrench on ya nipples and tell me that ain't hot.
Are there no seat belts on school buses? So that nature will weed out the weak.

Would you…

Swim the English Channel for a doughnut and coffee? If not that, what? A week with Zac Quinto, a gallon of crisco, a manicurist to keep my nails short and lots and lots of deep breathing for Zac.
Forgive someone who deliberately hurt you? Sure - I'll even let them choose which body part to give up as proof of their remorse.
Rather believe a lie if it hurt you less than the truth? The lie will hurt them a lot more than me - that weekend with Mossad wasn't a team building excercise.
Still be alive if you were sucked out of an airplane window? Sure - it's only six feet from there to the tarmac - you didnt say it was in the air or on the ground Mr Smart Arse.

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...............WTF.................. Add 2 Parts Drag Queen & 1 Part Fetishist..............

....................and you get this mess.





W.......................T......................F ............. ?!?!?!?!!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?

.........................shamelessly stolen from Dlisted.com - http://www.dlisted.com/node/36187

............Just Coz.............. No Good Deed from Wicked - Idinal Menzel.....

..............I just love this song and this musical totally blows me away every time I listen to the soundtrack.

Enjoy.....................

.......................Meds Update............................................

...................in keeping with my aim to have the blog a little lighter than all depression all the time I will keep this one a short one.

I have just finished two weeks on my new Anti Depressant - and I have to say "Thank you Baby Jesus!!".

The last two weeks have been amazing.

This new AD is absolutely what I needed. My mood has improved. My sleep has improved. My arse is no longer dragging on the ground in the mornings. My mood ranges are slowly but surely evening out. And "Damien Junior" is slowly but surely coming back to life (watch out husband - rowr!!!).

Needless to say - if you have depression and are maybe finding that the current med you are on is not working - talk to your doctor about Cymbalta - totally kicks arse.

Yes - it has a couple of side effects - I have dry mouth and I am sweating like a bulldog humping in the sun - but these are MINOR things compared to the mania I was experiencing before.

Seriously - Depression sux - but a GOOD doctor who knows and LISTENS - totally rocks with my cock out !!!

Shalom

Damien
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..............Men of the 2010 Winter Olympics Vancouver.............

..........My 2 Cents Worth....... Followers Who Are Actually Underage Sites.....

.....you are not welcome here.

If you are a follower on my blog and I find that you have blogs that focus on underage boys/teens either nude - or - clothed in provocative poses - and you know who you are bitches - you should know that I have now blocked you as a follower and reported you to Blogger.

If you try to rejoin under a new name - I will send your details to the FBI as you are all from the USA.

It's my blog and my rules you sick fukkers.

I hope we understand each other ....................... now FUCK OFF !!!!

Damien
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..In Honour Of The Winter Olympics.............................

...........Ladies & Gentlemen ............... Chris Colfer............

......................... I love this kid.

This is his Wikipedia entry - read this and tell me you aren't impressed by this kid.





Christopher Paul Colfer (born May 27, 1990 in Clovis, California) is an American actor, best known for his portrayal of the character of Kurt Hummel on Glee.

Early life and education

According to his Glee profile at Fox.com, while a student at Clovis East High School, Colfer was involved with the Speech & Debate program, where he won "many speech and debate Champion titles", the drama club, the FFA, "was president of the Writer’s Club, editor of the school's literary magazine, and captain of Destination ImagiNation."^[1] As a high school senior, he wrote, starred in, and directed a spoof of "Sweeney Todd" entitled "Shirley Todd", in which all of the roles were gender-reversed.^[2] A real experience of his in school that was later turned into a sub-plot for his character on Glee was high school teachers denying him the chance to sing "Defying Gravity" from the musical Wicked because it is traditionally performed by a woman.^[3] His grandmother, a minister, let him sing the song in her church.^[3]

Career

At the age of eighteen, Colfer starred as Russel Fish in Russel Fish: The Sausage and Eggs Incident, a short film where an awkward teenager must pass a Presidential Physical Fitness test or fail gym class and lose his admission to Harvard University.

Colfer's first TV role came in 2009 when he was cast as Kurt Hummel on Fox's Glee as a flamboyant and vogue singer who is bullied by the school football team. Colfer has explained that Hummel "puts on a very confident, 'I'm better than you' persona, but underneath it all he's the same anxious and scared teen everyone is/was at some point. In later episodes, he goes through an identity crisis, accepting and finding acceptance for who he is. [...] He's a tough guy in designer clothes."^[4] The character is also gay which is at the crux of many of his conflicts on the show. Colfer has a high vocal range, as displayed in the episode "Wheels", in which his character demonstrates the unusual ability (for a man) of singing a "high F" (an F5). However, his character deliberately pretends to be unable to sing the note in order to spare his father the harrassment he would receive for having a gay son.^[5]

Colfer is openly gay^[6] and shared on Access Hollywood that his parents were accepting of him but he was bullied at school.^[2][7][8] He originally auditioned for the role of Artie with the song "Mr Cellophane".^[9] Though Glee's casting directors ultimately selected Kevin McHale for the part, they were so impressed by Colfer's audition they wrote the Kurt Hummel character into the show as a vehicle for him.^[2][9] Colfer commented on his casting, "It's good to have something positive, especially for kids in small towns, like myself, who need a little pick-me-up." Kurt Hummel has gone on to become an audience favorite.^[10]

Awards and Nominations

2009 Satellite Awards:

• Nominee: Best Actor in a Supporting Role in a Series, Mini-Series or Motion Picture Made for Television (Glee).

2010 Golden Globes:

• Winner: Best Television Series- Comedy or Musical (Glee).

2010 Screen Actors Guild Awards

• Winner: Outstanding Performance by an Ensemble in a Comedy Series (Glee).

Here he is in a duet with Lea Michele singing "Defying Gravity". Fantastic stuff. I hope he has a long and successful career.

.........Just Coz..................... For Wesley..............................

....................................now which one is the bassist?

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