I am interested in hearing your views regarding open relationships - gay or str8.
I've never really had an open relationship - I have dated guys for a decent amount of time (3 months) where we weren't exclusive - but never a serious long term relationship that was monogamous emotionally - but open sexually.
Husband and I have been discussing this - not because we want to open our relationship - but more how these relationships survive considering that in our traditional views they are more "circumstances of convenience and / or companionship" than relationships.
Now - I see that these types of relationships including the following;
- Where the 2 partners play in 3somes only - never apart.
- Where one partner plays outside the relationship with the other partners blessing.
- Where both partners play outside the relationship with full disclosure.
- Where both partners play outside the relationship with a "Don't Ask - Don't Tell" policy.
So pop your opinions and / or experiences in the comments section and I will post them as a combined post when there are enough.
So - post away :) - please.
As always I am keen to hear your thoughts.